"I was a codependent, but codependency is not part of my present still".
Are you too tired to handle dense, complex, and painful relationships? Are you ready to accept that relationships can be just simple and pleasant, and you deserve them as everybody else? Do you still think that giving up on codependency means making huge change in your personality? When we are codependent, we feel wrong, and many others reinforce.
This statement could be yours if you are willing to. "I was a codependent, but codependency is not part of my present still"