From childhood onwards, females are encouraged into subservient roles, so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural, even "unfeminine" and "not nice." We are discouraged from aggressively grabbing what we want, and instead encouraged to sacrifice and nurture.
If.
So would many women.
Many men - the ones who value assertiveness (and even a little cruelty) in their female lovers would agree.
Surely, there has to be more to life than that.
We are taught to be prizes, not competitors.
From childhood onwards, females are encouraged into subservient roles, so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural, even "unfeminine" and "not nice." We are discouraged from aggressively grabbing what we want, and instead encouraged to sacrifice and nurture