From childhood onwards, females are encouraged into subservient roles, so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural, even unfeminine and not nice.
Chapter List: An Introduction for the Hesitant Mistress Guidance on the Workbook Sections Boons Quests and Tasks Erotic Punishment Ritual and Role-Play Orgasm Control Ten Basic Rules.
If you\'re one of these women, or if your man is one of those men, then this book could be just what you and he have been searching for.
So would many women.
Many men - the ones who value assertiveness (and even a little cruelty) in their female lovers would agree.
Surely, there has to be more to life than that.
We are taught to be prizes, not competitors.
We are discouraged from aggressively grabbing what we want, and instead encouraged to sacrifice and nurture.
From childhood onwards, females are encouraged into subservient roles, so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural, even unfeminine and not nice