A New York Times Book Review Editors\' Choice Kate Bowler\'s The Everything Happens Book Club Pick! Award-winning writer Heather Lanier \'s memoir about Raising a child with a Rare syndrome, defying the tyranny of normal, and embracing parenthood as a spiritual practice that breaks us open in the best of ways.
Her TED talk, \'Good\' and \'Bad\' Are Incomplete Stories We Tell Ourselves, has been viewed over two million times..
A graduate of Ohio State University\'s MFA program, she\'s now an Assistant Professor of Creative Nonfiction at Rowan University.
She has received an Ohio Arts Council Individual Excellence Award and a Vermont Creation Grant.
Her nonfiction has appeared in Salon, The Southern Review, The Threepenny Review, Fourth Genre, Brevity, Vela, and elsewhere.
She\'s the author of two award-winning poetry chapbooks: Heart-Shaped Bed in Hiroshima and The Story You Tell Yourself , winner of the Wick Poetry Open Chapbook Competition.
About author(s): Heather Lanier is an essayist, memoirist, and poet.
Lanier realizes the biggest question is not, Will my daughter walk or talk? but, How can I best love my girl, just as she is? Loving Fiona opens Lanier up to new understandings of what it means to be human, what it takes to be a mother, and above all, the aching joy and wonder that come from embracing the unique life of her Rare girl.
They also confront society\'s attitudes toward disability and the often cruel assumptions made about Fiona\'s worth.
With tiny bits of mozzarella cheese, a walker rolled to library story time, a talking iPad app, and a whole lot of pop and reggae, mother and daughter spend their days doing whatever it takes to give Fiona nourishment, movement, and language.
The diagnosis obliterated Lanier\'s perfectionist tendencies, along with her most closely held beliefs about certainty, vulnerability, God, and love.
Not only had Lanier failed to produce a SuperBaby, she now fiercely loved a child that the world would sometimes reject.
Born with an ultra-Rare syndrome known as Wolf-Hirschhorn, Fiona received a daunting prognosis: she would experience significant developmental delays and might not reach her second birthday.
But her daughter Fiona challenged all of Lanier\'s preconceptions.
She ate organic foods, recited affirmations, and drew up a birth plan for an unmedicated labor in the hopes that she could create a SuperBaby, an ultra-healthy human destined for a high-achieving future.
Like many women of her generation, Heather Lanier did everything by the book when she was expecting her first child.
A New York Times Book Review Editors\' Choice Kate Bowler\'s The Everything Happens Book Club Pick! Award-winning writer Heather Lanier \'s memoir about Raising a child with a Rare syndrome, defying the tyranny of normal, and embracing parenthood as a spiritual practice that breaks us open in the best of ways
