When Mai Neng Moua decides to get married, her mother, a widow, wants the groom to follow Hmong custom and pay a Bride price, which both honors the work the bride\'s family has done in raising a daughter and offers a promise of love and security from the groom\'s family.
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What happens next is devastating, and it raises questions about the very meaning of being Hmong in America.
Her husband-to-be supports her choice.
Mai Neng, who knows the pain this tradition has caused, says no.
When Mai Neng Moua decides to get married, her mother, a widow, wants the groom to follow Hmong custom and pay a Bride price, which both honors the work the bride\'s family has done in raising a daughter and offers a promise of love and security from the groom\'s family