Grief is very hard work and the worst grief is your own.
Grief work is a step-by-step process, and it can not be rushe.
If something triggered me, I would burst into tears, during the most inopportune times.
When I least expected it, the impact of the loss overwhelmed me.
I had two grieving teenagers, worked 120 hours every two weeks and I was going to school to get my BSN in nursing.
After a devastating loss I put my grief work on hold, until I thought there would be a more convenient season.
Grief is very hard work and the worst grief is your own