When I moved to New York City, I realized what it meant to be truly lonely for the first time.
Considering you\'re here, you\'re on the right track.
All you need are some tools and the right mindset.
I promise that you can have richer connections than you ever thought were possible.
If you\'re ready to find your community, start with this book.
It also shows how I went from desperately floundering around in New York City to having a true chosen family within two years.
It teaches you how to shift the way that you view community, and realize that fostering meaningful relationships requires deep work.
Unlonely Planet provides seven ways for you to find a Healthy congregation, AKA your people.
In order to make that happen, we need to fundamentally Change our social lives.
What we really desire is intimacy, and to feel like we belong.
That\'s pretty bleak, right? Yet this feeling is rooted in something even deeper and more primal than a need for conversation.
The planet is filled with people who feel like they don\'t matter.
The average American only has one close friend, and 75% of people are not satisfied with their friendships. but I was VERY wrong.
Turns out, loneliness is a huge issue in the United States.
At the time, I thought that I was the only one who felt this way...
I was disconnected.
I had no consistent community - people who would wonder where I was if I didn\'t show up.
When I moved to New York City, I realized what it meant to be truly lonely for the first time
