Narcissism is more than a personality; it\'s a system for exploiting love and a blueprint for avoiding shame.
Enmeshment to individuality: Learn how narcissists use enmeshment to con. 3.
Worship to personal power: Dispel the childhood belief that you can be saved by the \'perfect\' person and take responsibility for your life. 2.
Split to ambivalence: Learn to hold both love and hate for a person and to see them as they truly are.
Seven paradigm shifts are introduced which help end the illusory power grab found in the Narcissist regime: 1.
Overcoming narcissism requires awareness of its patterns along with an inside-out approach. - Become aware of the potential for such roles to be repeated in all facets of life; romantic relationships, social groups, organizations and spiritual groups. - Get a clear picture of the narcissistic family; a closed environment where trauma and shame are repressed and replaced with a family \'doctrine.\' - Have an appreciation of how profoundly narcissistic family roles shape the people in it and help perpetuate narcissism. - Become aware of the archetypes behind the figures in your life and how they subconsciously influence and control you. - Understand how grandiosity addiction and \'splitting\' combine to create narcissistic relationships. - Be able to recognize your unconscious tendency to \'split\', or rather, to either worship (love) or vilify (hate) others.
After reading this book, you will: - Understand how overexposure to shame and trauma causes a disconnect from reality and leads to grandiosity addiction; a compulsive need to be in control of and superior to others.
To provide clear guidance on how we can stop narcissistic patterns from repeating in our lives. 2.
To illustrate our inherent psychological traits which make narcissism possible.
It has two aims: 1. \'Killing Narcissism\' is a book for those who want to look deeper and see the bigger picture.
This unconscious pattern is the Narcissist regime, and it shapes us more than we know.
Narcissism is more than a personality; it\'s a system for exploiting love and a blueprint for avoiding shame
