If you\'ve been manipulated, then odds are you are having a hard time figuring out who has the problem, what is normal compared to what is problematic, and if your wants, needs, and feelings are valid.
Sincere Remorse ...and many more..
Trauma Bonding Insincere Remorse vs.
Intensity Healthy Bonding vs.
Being Put Through So Much By Them Sincerity vs.
Allowance Going Through So Much Together vs.
Deal Breakers Acceptance vs.
Being in Love With Who They Pretended to Be Workable Behavior vs.
Someone Being Friendly Being in Love With Them vs.
A Person Actually Changing A Friend vs.
Selfishness A Person Acting the Part vs.
Codependency Self-love vs.
Tolerating Abuse Commitment vs.
Being Discerning No One is Perfect vs.
Some of the concepts covered are: Who are You to Judge vs.
What makes this well-intended bad advice so damaging is that, on the surface, it seems like good advice--especially if it\'s coming From people who seem to have our best interests in mind, such as friends, family, church members, support group members, spiritual advisors, or therapists.
However, this type of destructive manipulation isn\'t just limited to narcissists and sociopaths.
These three emotions are often at the core of manipulation and are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling their targets.
The FOG is an acronym that stands for Fear, Obligation, and Guilt.
The disastrous effects of being lost in the FOG are confusion, crazymaking, people pleasing, an erosion of boundaries, and the ultimate loss of self.
This Confusion is often caused by what is known as the FOG.
If you\'ve been manipulated, then odds are you are having a hard time figuring out who has the problem, what is normal compared to what is problematic, and if your wants, needs, and feelings are valid
