\'Birthdays may be difficult for me.\' \'I want you to take the initiative in opening conversations about my birth family.\' \'When I act out my fears in obnoxious ways, please hang in there with me.\' \'I a.... \'Birthdays may be difficult for me.\' \'I want you to take the initiative in opening conversations about my birth family.\' \'When I act out my fears in obnoxious ways, please hang in there with me.\' \'I a...